Yes … The education darling, because if a woman has never learned to cook from her parents, she can never become a kitchen princess in the kitchen when she goes on her own, if a woman or a man does not tidy her or his room in the parental home. Do you think he or she would be able to keep her house tidy later on in his own place? Uhmm I don’t think so … It will be a struggle to get it done, won’t it? The man or woman must then actually learn in a short period of time to do that and to keep it up. So yes in mine opinion, everything starts at home with education and coaching from the parents.
It is the same with the things that a man gets in his upbringing, if he has ever learned to express himself openly, to take responsibility for how he should treat a woman, etc. etc. Have good roll model, then often these are things that can later become an issue. .
I often see girls or women trying to “fix” their partner, but in principle that is simply not possible. Of course you can teach each other things and motivate each other, but what is embedded in a person you cannot change, only the person himself can …
Of course you can get to know someone with a life story.