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Tea Time with Miss B. |Mah Music Julia Michaels – Issues


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Are you a self absorbed person? That question is for each of us to think about. You have people who are always ready for others, you have people who are very social, you have people who are very withdrawn and you have self-absorbed people. And we are going to talk about the latter …

You have to be careful not to spend too much time only on yourself, with your feelings, your experiences … be careful not to use people only when you need them.

We live in a world where everyone is busy with their selves and that’s okay because we all have our lives, right? And why should you be busy with other people’s lives, that is not your road to walk on … There are a number of things that we as humans find difficult to do, acknowledge, look at ourselves and accept mistakes. But sometimes we are not aware…. we must be careful not to forget that it can be difficult for others too. You have to be careful that you are not only concerned with yourself, with your feelings, your experiences… be careful not to use people only when you need them.

This Quote talks about one of the things that could be a deal breaker on a long term for in a friendship or a relationship … no one would like to feel used, especially when you find someone alone as a friend act when they are happy with your commitment to them and if you have not been able to bet the way they want at that moment then they will let you down. That´s not what a friendship should be about. And if you ask me that´s not a real friendship. some people can be so busy with themselves and them that even if you make them aware of their actions they will automatically switch to defense mode. Well let me tell you it doesn’t even make sense to start a conversation. Just let it be… with time they will find themselves on the long term alone. .. not because people want to drop them, but because it is tiring and painful at the same time, it is not fair to keep investing in such a friendship. It absorbs a lot of power, energy and you are actually constantly trying to prove yourself to someone like that to no avail because if you act in a way that does not match what they expected from you then you start all over again…. and so that’s an impossible task to accomplish. This Quote talks about one of the things that can be a deal breaker on a long term in a friendship or a relationship … no one would like to feel used, especially if you find that someone treats you well only as a friend when they are happy with you commitment to their butt if you have not been able to bet the way they want at that moment they will drop you, or they will get their way show that they are not happy with you. That´s not what a friendship should be about. And if you ask me that´s not a real friendship. Some people can be so busy with themselves and them that even if you make them aware of their actions, they will automatically go into defense mode. Well let me tell you this it doesn’t even make sense to start a conversation. Just let it be… with time they will find themselves on the long term alone. .. Not because people want to drop them, but because it is tiring and painful at the same time, it is not fair to keep investing in such a friendship.

It absorbs a lot of power, energy and you are actually constantly trying to prove yourself to someone like that to no avail because if you act in a way that does not match what they expected from you then you start all over again…. and that is if you ask me an impossible task to fulfill. And no one should want that for themselves. It absorbs a lot of power, energy and you are actually constantly trying to prove yourself to someone like that to no avail because if you act in a way that does not match what they expected from you then you start all over again…. and that is if you ask me an impossible task to fulfill. And no one should want that for themselves.

Don’t get me wrong sometimes there can be situations that unfortunately you are very busy with yourself for a while. That is temporary. But what if you are naturally like that? Then you have to be honest and recognize that and try to work because to change. The last thing you want is to lose precious people in your life. Nobody likes to correct themselves but it’s much needed, darling. Just saying. And maybe not for the friendships you no longer have, but for your future friendships and / or relationship.


See You on Our Next Time , Darling!


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