If it has a positive influence on you then it’s fantastic! Ohhh yesss! But if you find that it is negatively affecting you, then you need to acknowledge it and do something about it. Negative influence does not have to mean that something puts you on a bad path, no it can also mean that it takes away your happiness and has such an impact on you that it takes away your peace, dominates your life or makes you lose yourself. And that is unacceptable, if you find it difficult to change that ask yourself why someone or being part of something that does not make you happy or does not fit your values and norms must necessarily continue to be part of your life if it is you breaks as a person? Then you are torturing yourself to please someone else, the funny part is who suffers exactly you! Then we come to the next question, what prevents you from choosing for yourself? The answer is very simple: yourself, darling.
And why fear to disappoint people, hope that people will change… whatever the reason may be don’t let it stop you to choose yourself! And then you’ll feel wonderful, and you’ll feel like yourself again don’t let anyone control your life don’t let no one tell you how to live your life it’s your life!